Marion Ehmm - New York City - NY
Professional Surrogate
Advanced Degree, Mental Health
(212) 316-4768
I have been a sexual surrogate in New York City for the past 12 years. Through this experience, I have come to believe in the healing power of touch which is the essence of this tender process. I approach this work with compassion, empathy and an ability to welcome each client without judgment or criticism.
Our work takes place in a warm, safe environment where the process can progress in a relaxed atmosphere. Clients often come to me with sexual concerns or at a crucial turning point in their lives. A person in such circumstances usually feels isolated and vulnerable. Through nurturance and guidance, I help them rebuild their social and sexual confidence. We work as a team where I function as a personal coach and ally. I bring to my surrogacy practice intelligence, insight and discretion.
Our society tend to evaluate men in terms of what they achieve which can create a burdening sense of performance anxiety, and all but diminishes a man's humanity. I appreciate those with whom I work for their hearts and minds, the contents being more important than the packaging.
Since I am comfortable with my own sexuality, I know the pleasure that intimate sexual expression can create as well as the pain that dysfunction engenders. Feeling good about one's abilities in bed is an important ingredient in living a passionate, fulfilled life. The goal of the therapy is to understand and resolve whatever is inhibiting a person's sexual success. A few years ago, a client who had been impotent before he started working with me became the father of a baby girl whom he named Marion. Such an appreciative gesture reinforces the great joy I feel when I help men in profound and meaningful ways.
I was originally trained by a team of psychotherapists in New York who provided the basic Masters and Johnson surrogate instruction and ongoing supervision to help me refine my skills. Further deepening my understanding of the psychodynamics of sexual functioning, I hold a Master's Degree in a mental health profession.
On a personal note, I graduated from a Seven Sisters college and worked in the film industry and on Wall Street before attending graduate school. I am musical (occasionally do some professional back-up singing) and creative (I love to knit and cook.) I also do a mean New York Times crossword puzzle!
I welcome your inquiries. For more information or to arrange an appointment, call me at
(212) 316-4768
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